Upcoming Events

You are cordially invtied to Crucible Rendezvous, your new monthly hangout for the Swinger, ENM, and Kinky Community!

Welcome to Crucible Rendezvous, where passion is celebrated and connections ignite in an inclusive and queer-friendly atmosphere. As a trailblazing event in the realm of Swinger and ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) kink parties, Crucible Rendezvous prides itself on creating a space that is not only inclusive but actively embraces the vibrant spectrum of human connections.

Our gatherings are a fusion of sensuality, consent, and open-minded exploration. Whether you're a seasoned participant or a newcomer to the lifestyle, Crucible Rendezvous invites you to embark on a journey of connection, pleasure, and self-discovery. Our commitment to providing a safe, judgment-free space allows you to engage with like-minded individuals, forging connections that extend beyond the confines of societal norms.

At Crucible Rendezvous, we believe in fostering an environment where all expressions of love, desire, and kink are welcomed, respected, and celebrated. Our events are designed with a queer-friendly ethos, recognizing and honoring the rich tapestry of identities within the LGBTQIA+ community. We strive to create a haven for individuals and couples exploring the realms of ethical non-monogamy, swinging, and kink, ensuring that everyone feels seen, heard, and free to express their authentic selves.

Join us at Crucible Rendezvous, where the crucible of passion meets a conclave of diverse souls, and let the sparks of connection spark your most intimate desires. Embrace the extraordinary and revel in the freedom to explore the boundaries of your own unique journey in the company of fellow seekers of pleasure and connection.

 This is a 21+ Party
Identification is required at the entrance.
Must be a member of The Crucible or the guest of a member.

$25 for members, $35 for guests
(Limit 1 guest per member)

On BR Social nights, The Crucible will admit BR members at the same rate as Crucible members ($25 members/$35 guests).

Join us at 9pm for socialization and light refreshments. Open play starts whenever and lasts until the doors close.

 You must be a Crucible or Black Rose member or the guest of one to attend.

From the creators of Lights Out, Barks Out comes Animal Haus, a monthly music and play event centered at the intersection of pet play and kink. DJs will be spinning all night long, while attendees can explore The Crucible’s 6,000 square feet of play space. Fursuiters, Pups, and petplayers from all around the DMV can expect a fun, consent based, unforgettable evening.

Animal Haus is a break from LOBO’s usual event (held on the second saturday at The Green Lantern). While you can still expect the same caliber of music and excitement, Animal Haus is centered on bringing together folks from all different communities to play, dance, and
connect in a way that is solely unique to The Crucible. In this members-only space, nudity and open play is allowed, and occasionally LOBO will feature demo stations so folks can get a taste of different flavors of Kink.

This event is 21+ and will have a bar. While there is no formal coat check, there is a coat/gear/tote/etc room to hold any of your gear or bags (first come first serve). The Crucible features a dance floor, seating area, lounge, 2 private rooms, a semi private space, and a huge dungeon space packed with furniture to help fulfill any fantasy.

Please note you must be a member or a guest of a member to attend. One member per guest allowed, guests may only be guested in twice before we ask that they purchase a membership. Memberships are $40 a year and can be purchased from the-crucible.com. Membership must be purchased in advance of attending any event at The Crucible.

All attendees must show government-issued photo ID.