The Crucible is a private club. To attend, you must be a member.

Crucible Paid Memberships

Crucible membership - $25 per person per year

Who Can Become a Member of The Crucible

People who promote the practice of Safe Sane, and Consensual BDSM Activities and/or Risk Aware Consensual Kink activites
People who are members of an alternative lifestyle such as but not limited to, heterosexual, gay, lesbian, bisexual, BDSM, leather and transgender, looking for a mutually supportive community
People who have not found a welcoming environment in traditional social organizations due to gender, sexual orientation or lifestyle choice

Eligibility Criteria

Must be 18 years of age or older
Must support the general purposes of the club
Must pay annual dues

Guest Policy

Members may bring up to 2 guests per event
An additional Guest fee will be charged in addition to the regular entry fee
Guests may visit two times in one calendar year before they will be asked to join as a member
The Crucible Management may limit guests for any event


The Crucible holds one recruiting event a month, Dungeon 101
Prospective members may visit the Crucible on Dungeon 101 nights without a membership


Membership in The Crucible is considered confidential and is maintained in the strictest confidence.
Only current managers of The Crucible have access to the membership rolls

Application Process

Each applicant for membership shall apply on a form approved by the Board of Directors which shall provide that the applicant agrees to abide by the Bylaws of the Corporation and any other Rules or Regulations adopted by the Board of Directors
The application shall state the legal name and address of the applicant.
Accompanying the application, the prospective member shall submit dues payable for the current year
Payment of dues must be received before use of The Crucible
Membership year is valid for 364 days after the acceptance of the membership
The Board of Directors or the Managers of the Crucible will approve or deny all membership
All Memberships must be purchased online. Membership can not be purchased at The Crucible

After making your membership purchase, you will receive a browser receipt, AND an email receipt. Bring the printed receipt, OR the email on your phone/ipad/etc. to the Crucible to get your membership card. All methods of this communication are good for this. WE DO NOT MAIL CARDS. We never send anything to your address of record.

Your Crucible membership is recognized by our swinger's group: CrucibleLifestyle

There is NO difference in the two memberships, it's just for self identification: Crucible = kinky. Lifestyle = Swinger

Crucible memberships MUST be obtained BEFORE you come to the club.

Memberships must be applied for at our online merchant system: (click graphic)

Membership link

We will need some of your personal information (completely discrete - NEVER given out!).